What is love to you, is it something that you want to have cause everyone has someone that is dear to their heart? or is it to complete the imbalance feeling deep within your heart? or something that you just want for social purposes and to be known as the stereotypical players and sluts that we have today? or are you just one of those people that thinks love exist only in fairy tales and stories? or are you someone who thinks that love doesnt exist at all? and that its the perfect excuse of fulfilling the need and cravings that we have from our day to day experiences? or are you one of those people who think that we could not be possibly understand what love means because we are too young to experience that strong feeling?
Personally, i think that we cant fully understand what love means, until we are much older "the older the wiser you get" as i always say. ut i also think that we gain experiences from our day to day struggles that adds up in our "book of experiences" in the topic about love. I think that love is the most beautiful thing that you could ever find, its something that is so plainly wonderful which cause you to sleep soundly at night and wake up in the morning with the biggest smile in your face, "its the closest thing to magic", cheesy right!. I think love is something that we cannot rush like after having the biggest painful break up you've ever had and going to some other person to mend the pains that he or she have caused you, is just plain stupid. I think that when you are going into deep relationships you accept all the flaws and differences you have with that someone and just give your all to them, love them, kiss them and care for them, tell them that you love them and never let them go. Cheesy right, but love is just something that gives you that wonderful feeling and also the worst and the most horrible feeling in the world.
Ultimate happiness, happiness that is never-ending and so perfect that gives you butterflies in your stomach. Every time you see that special someone of yours, and when you see that person, you know that they are the one, someone that you can spend your whole life with. You sacrifice everything for them, do things that you've never thought of doing, and do alot of crazy things, and the best part about love is it makes you happy and it makes you feel special. Like a little kid opening the first ever present that he/she has ever got. Your just so happy, and you feel so free and loved at the same time. Its something that you cannot describe its just ultimate happiness.
And when that relationship ends, dont just go to some other person to mend that broken heart. Personally i think that its quite stupid when people treat love as a plain kids game! after breaking up with someone dear to their heart, they go around to some person hoping that he/she can give the love you used to have. I think that its the most lowest thing anyone can ever do. When loving someone its natural that you will get into fights and end up with broken hearts, its the circle of life, something that we shouldnt treat as a kids game, it does leave you with scars that stays there forever and when you find that someone just hold on tight, never leave them hanging, always tell them that you love them, treat them specially, and when you have fights tell them that you're sorry and that you love them very much, and when the relationship is over, just move on. As i always say "theres a reason why your last relationsip didnt work out", because if it did, you wil never meet that perfect someone who completes you, someone who treats you specially, someone that will give you endless happiness. Im not saying that you should just throw everything away, you should realise that every relationship always have its ups and downs, and its perfectly normal to have problems in your relationships, that's why you work them out, they made you happy once, why not again. If it doesnt work then move on, there's a lot people the deserve you, maybe he or she wasnt the one. Theres a lot of fishes in the sea.
